Belated "Crap!"
Jul. 29th, 2005 04:23 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
lance_sibleyI had a long phone conversation about five hours ago... karaoke tomorrow night has been cancelled due to illness (his).
Crap.
Not that it really matters, because he seems to be... well... oblivious. I could go into tremendous amounts of detail but I'd bore people to tears - and besides, no matter what anyone says, I can hear it his voice. I mean, why else would he tell me about the guy who hit on him on the streetcar this afternoon? I mean, I've told him I find him attractive, and interesting, and everything else, and he still doesn't seem to understand the implications... he laughs and calls me "sweet," and proceeds to ask me if I think he should go out with this guy from the streetcar.
Crap.
Well, he's either oblivious or just not interested...
On the upside, this means I can conceivably be awake in time for my 10:30 cybermeeting Saturday morning.
Silver linings.
In other news... the Gaylaxicon 2006 website has been updated... more updates coming soon.
Crap.
Not that it really matters, because he seems to be... well... oblivious. I could go into tremendous amounts of detail but I'd bore people to tears - and besides, no matter what anyone says, I can hear it his voice. I mean, why else would he tell me about the guy who hit on him on the streetcar this afternoon? I mean, I've told him I find him attractive, and interesting, and everything else, and he still doesn't seem to understand the implications... he laughs and calls me "sweet," and proceeds to ask me if I think he should go out with this guy from the streetcar.
Crap.
Well, he's either oblivious or just not interested...
On the upside, this means I can conceivably be awake in time for my 10:30 cybermeeting Saturday morning.
Silver linings.
In other news... the Gaylaxicon 2006 website has been updated... more updates coming soon.
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Date: 2005-07-31 01:22 am (UTC)I would typically use a Socratic method and just ask them what they are looking for in a relationship. (This is how being helpful might help you later.)
Or it might backfire and depress me even further when I realize that what he's looking for is something I can't give him...
But yes, I should actually help him to figure out what he's looking for anyway. I'm not sure whether he's sure... apart from the fact that he's decided to try dating men, he hasn't exactly given me a lot of detail yet.
Gay men are at a disadvantage in that they don't always realize that men are scum. Straight men are told this all the time. ;)
Oh, I've had my experiences with scum... remind me to tell you sometime about the one-night stand I had with the guy who robbed me. Or the guy who turned out to be a drug addict who stalked me for nine months...